Make Your Relationship Work By Doing This

Communication problems often lead to relationship issues, which is no great surprise. If you can’t communicate with your partner, how can you cultivate a sense of closeness and love?

Still, basic communication challenges often lead to broken relationships. It makes you wonder what everyone’s doing wrong. We’re going to cover five common communication omissions that threaten relationships.

1. Not asking unique, personal questions

“How was your day?”

There’s nothing implicitly wrong with the above question. But, if repeated frequently, it lacks sincerity and shows a lack of effort. Many couples go through the motions of social platitudes because they don’t know what else to say, but this kind of filler talk can be surprisingly devastating. Why? Continue reading

An Open Letter To Men From Sexy Consciously Awake Women

Before you read this, I invite you to read the first post in this series. Don’t skip it. If you don’t read it, I trust you’ll be highly triggered and write me off, call me a bitch, and go along your way. That’s not what I want. That’s not what we want.

What Does It Mean To Be “Consciously Awake”?

Everyone has issues. Men and women both. Humans are imperfect. As a result, we have to deal with and own our shit. We don’t get to throw it onto other people. That’s not what Consciously Awake means. Continue reading

Learn What She Consideres Sexy and Do it with Congruency

1. She “died” that night

The single hottest thing mine has ever said was the other night- we had both had a couple drinks, getting into bed, getting into heavy petting.

He stops and looks at me and just groaned. I said, – What? Did I hurt you? Are you okay? – He kinda looked at me and said, You have the hottest fucking body on the face of the planet and it’s all I can do not to take you right fucking now. -

I died.

2. She does

He’s used these more than once, but oh man;

– You like it when I fuck you from behind? -or

– You like riding that fucking dick? – 

Yes. Yes I do. Continue reading

The 7 Defining Rules to a Drama Free “Friends with Benefits” Relationship

Unfortunately, not every man that is qualified to sleep over deserves to graduate into relationship territory. But in the meantime, you shouldn’t feel prisoned to dry spells until Mr. Right comes knocking on your door. Right?

Before diving into any friends-with-benefits arrangement, prepare yourself to set boundaries and cold cut rules in order to keep the sex fling lighthearted and drama-free. Here’s how…

1. Stay Busy

Too much free time equals way too much think time. Stay as busy as possible. Get some extra work done after hours, involve yourself with an activity and take all procedures to keep your mind from wandering. We all know what can happen when the sex overpowers. It can handicap our thoughts into believing that our flings could elevate into something deeper. Spend less time thinking and more time doing.

2. Avoid Talking On The Phone

Long live those innocent, teenage high school days, when spending countless hours on the phone was a normal routine. Now there are real consequences that come with that kind of personal one on one time- the consequence being, “feelings.”

To remain as detached as possible, limit your sex partner to standard texts or even tweets. Keep any phone call brief and to the point. Don’t become too engulfed in his personal life and most importantly, don’t end up being his shoulder to cry on for any reason. Continue reading

19 Questions to Ask Yourself After a First Date

There’s more to a first date than just chemistry, assuming you’re looking for more than just Mr. or Ms. Right Now. Here’s what I believe are the most important questions to ask yourself. Note: (Do not copy this list and bring it with you on the date so you have something to check off.)

1. Did this person listen to me?

Did your date practice active listening or did she turn everything you said back onto her? Did she focus on you and make a conscious effort to not only hear the words that came out of your mouth, but (more importantly) the complete message being sent? …

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19 Questions To Ask Yourself After A First Date

How to Be A Challenge to Your Girlfriend

how to be a challenge to girfriendThere are all kinds of things that can make a good relationship turn bad. Of course, the word ‘bad’ is subjective, but it’s a rare couple that can maintain that initial excitement for the duration of their relationship. To put it another way: boredom kills relationships. As a guy, it’s important to think of how to be a challenge to your girlfriend. But, just as ‘bad’ is a subjective word, so too is ‘challenge’. Holding on to that thought; let’s explore this idea a bit further.

Challenge Calibration

Assuming that boredom is one of the main enemies of a good relationship, then it only makes sense that you will do whatever you can to keep things interesting. Anything goes, in theory; in reality, you need to be careful that you don’t take your challenges too far. Continue reading

How to Dump Your Girlfriend

how to breakup girlfriendDo you want to dump your girlfriend?

In 3 out of every 4 break ups, the girl does the dumping.  That means that guys often are inexperienced when they want to get out of relationships because in the past, it’s always been their girlfriends who have called it quits.  So here’s a guys’ guide to how to dump your girlfriend.

There are several ways to dump your girlfriend.

The first method is to “drift away.”  You gradually stop calling her.  You don’t go out on dates.  You become emotionally unavailable.  At some point, she’ll get the message.  You may not even have to have a formal scene.  It will be over without any words.

There are many ways to tell her that you are dumping her.  You can take the coward’s way out and write her a letter or text message.  But, don’t expect that you will be able to dump your girlfriend so easily.  She will probably track you down and make a scene anyway. Continue reading

How to Write a Love Letter For Your Girlfriend

1280px-Remains_of_a_burnt_letter_of_loveIf you are wondering about buying the absolute most perfect gifts for your girlfriend or wife on Valentine’s Day, instead of buying something, why not try your hand at writing a love letter or love poem?

Writing love letters or love poems can be the most romantic thing to do for her, she will treasure it forever.

All you have to do is search your heart and soul and let your feelings for her flow through your fingertips onto the page. It really is not a very hard thing to do at all. Continue reading

6 Non Verbal Ways to Tell Your Girlfriend; I love You

6 ways tell girlfriend i love you

  • Have a hard time expressing your feelings?
  • Are you afraid that if you do it will make you seem like less of a man?
  • Are you afraid of coming across as vulnerable?

Saying, “your my girlfriend and I love you” will show her that you are secure in your feelings and, frankly, are more of a man because you can express your feelings.

Conveying your feelings to her is easy and you will feel better for having done it. There are many other ways of saying, “your my girlfriend” beside the words you speak. Read on to find out what they are.

Be Welcoming

Pay attention to how your react when she enters the room. Do you smile and rush to greet her with a hug and a kiss? If you do then she can see and feel that you love her. This shows her that she makes you happy when she is around.

Cook for Her

Everyone has to eat and if you put forth the effort to make her a romantic dinner once in a while she will know that you think fondly of her and want to see her happy. Include some candlelight and wine and you may just be rewarded for your efforts later. Continue reading