A Global Effort to Understand Women
A Global Effort to Understand Women
Culturally, we tend to think of orgasms as the be all and the end all of sex. Of course, orgasms are literally referred to as the “climax” of sex. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t always room for improvement … An orgasm is the involuntary, rhythmic contraction of genital muscles followed by the warm, tingling […]
Self-respect is essential for any healthy relationship. But when working with individuals in their search for love, I’m still always surprised to hear a common sentiment: “I need to focus on myself before I start dating.” My surprise isn’t due to disapproval. I love that people have this feeling; it means they’re aware that real […]
“I feel like I’m always walking on eggshells with Rosalyn,” my client Sean admitted during our recent Skype session. “I hate that we can’t talk about problems in our relationship. As soon as something comes up that isn’t going her way, she attacks me and blames me. I don’t know what to do.” Sean is […]
“So, is he your boyfriend?” my friend asked, turning her head to the side and leaning in. I’d just recounted a lovely, snow-filled weekend I’d spent upstate with a man I’d been hanging out with for three months. I felt unprepared. I quickly conducted an invisible assessment of the relationship in my head. Deep conversations: […]
I had just returned home after a great Pilates class and was bending down to load some dishes in the dishwasher when it happened. I felt my abdominal and thigh muscles flex, contract, quiver and then … boom! It was a coregasm! But how did it happen? Why did it happen? And most importantly, how […]
Recall the best sex you have ever had. I can almost guarantee that nothing about it was spontaneous. Whether it was anticipation of the date, the flirting that took place beforehand, your outfit or the cologne you decided to wear, sex was on your mind as a “plan,” at least somewhat. Interestingly, we often associate […]
How To Express Your Authentic Truth In Relationships “I feel like I’m always walking on eggshells with Rosalyn,” my client Sean admitted during our recent Skype session. “I hate that we can’t talk about problems in our relationship. As soon as something comes up that isn’t going her way, she attacks me and blames me. […]
Most women have been taught since childhood to be “good little girls”, “behave like a lady”, and “grin and bear itâ€. Remember hearing the saying “little girls are made of sugar and spice, and all things nice”? Fast forward to the 21st century, where women are now allowed to be tough, to say NO, to […]
For many of us, our romantic relationships are one of the most central part of our lives. When things are going well, they are a source of total joy; but when they’re not, our relationships can bring about heartache. Though ultimately, our happiness really depends on how we handle our relationships, and how we treat […]
Have you ever wondered what exactly “charisma” is? And have you ever wondered how you could “get it” … even if you feel like you’re not charismatic? I remember as a young girl watching my father win over people everywhere he went. It didn’t matter if we were at a mall, at a restaurant, or […]
(if you like this article please click on “Like” and share with friends) Why are some orgasms better than others, even when there’s no obvious reason for a difference in quality? A new study has proposed an explanation: A woman’s orgasm helps her determine how good a partner the other person will be. In other […]
Society and our specific environments set us up to believe particular stereotypes and assumptions that make being ourselves, and living our lives moment to moment, quite hard. This can be especially true when it comes to relationships: all of us were brought up with a strong attachment to the idea of “romance” and/or “falling in […]
1. Stop Fearing Rejection Plain and simple: Your fear of rejection is your worst enemy — yet it usually just doesn’t happen. The fact is, a beautiful woman won’t scream and run away from you. She won’t point you out to her friends and laugh. She won’t turn into a monster from hell and cut […]
When I first started working with couples, I really had no idea what I was doing or how to help couples that were coming to see me. It was truly a baptism by fire because I had to come up with something to help each couple move out of pain and start to make positive […]
All human beings share the same deepest longings: to know and be known, to hold and be held, to love and be loved, to experience connection without walls and expression without censors. And yet, when real love is staring you in the eyes, when a loving partner stands before you, you may notice a disconcerting […]
Communication problems often lead to relationship issues, which is no great surprise. If you can’t communicate with your partner, how can you cultivate a sense of closeness and love? Still, basic communication challenges often lead to broken relationships. It makes you wonder what everyone’s doing wrong. We’re going to cover five common communication omissions that […]
Before you read this, I invite you to read the first post in this series. Don’t skip it. If you don’t read it, I trust you’ll be highly triggered and write me off, call me a bitch, and go along your way. That’s not what I want. That’s not what we want. What Does It […]
1. She “died” that night The single hottest thing mine has ever said was the other night- we had both had a couple drinks, getting into bed, getting into heavy petting. He stops and looks at me and just groaned. I said, – What? Did I hurt you? Are you okay? – He kinda looked […]
Whether you’re navigating the trenches of a painful divorce, taking a sex sabbatical or hibernating from love, eventually you will yearn to get back out there and try your heart at love again. As you pick up the pieces from relationships past, you may find yourself gaining enough courage to start fresh. Welcome to the […]
Unfortunately, not every man that is qualified to sleep over deserves to graduate into relationship territory. But in the meantime, you shouldn’t feel prisoned to dry spells until Mr. Right comes knocking on your door. Right? Before diving into any friends-with-benefits arrangement, prepare yourself to set boundaries and cold cut rules in order to keep […]
There’s more to a first date than just chemistry, assuming you’re looking for more than just Mr. or Ms. Right Now. Here’s what I believe are the most important questions to ask yourself. Note: (Do not copy this list and bring it with you on the date so you have something to check off.) 1. […]
1. Wonder about what’s on my mind 2. Share something with my co-worker 3. Tweeted; “Facebook is down” 4. Discovered I have a window in my office and half a sandwich in a drawer. WFT ?? 5. Check if Facebook was back on. Nope …. checked again …. nope !! 6. Pee 7. Went to […]