Reminder that guys aren’t dicks just because they don’t wanna date you any more

I went on two dates with this guy a couple of months ago and we got on really well. After the second date he called me, said he loved getting to know me, but it just didn’t feel like something he’d want to pursue. 

Fair enough.

When I tweeted about it at the time, people were quick to accuse him of being arrogant to call, but I think it’s great. Especially in a time where ghosting has become so terribly normal. 

Anyway, he’s obviously just a nice genuine guy, because I got this lovely message from him last week, he just doesn’t fancy me that much. 

WHICH IS OK. Guys, it’s the point of dating, you date to see whether you like someone enough to be with. If they don’t like you that much, it does not make them a dick.

Rant over, byeeee.