How to Be A Challenge to Your Girlfriend

how to be a challenge to girfriendThere are all kinds of things that can make a good relationship turn bad. Of course, the word ‘bad’ is subjective, but it’s a rare couple that can maintain that initial excitement for the duration of their relationship. To put it another way: boredom kills relationships. As a guy, it’s important to think of how to be a challenge to your girlfriend. But, just as ‘bad’ is a subjective word, so too is ‘challenge’. Holding on to that thought; let’s explore this idea a bit further.

Challenge Calibration

Assuming that boredom is one of the main enemies of a good relationship, then it only makes sense that you will do whatever you can to keep things interesting. Anything goes, in theory; in reality, you need to be careful that you don’t take your challenges too far. Continue reading

How to Dump Your Girlfriend

how to breakup girlfriendDo you want to dump your girlfriend?

In 3 out of every 4 break ups, the girl does the dumping.  That means that guys often are inexperienced when they want to get out of relationships because in the past, it’s always been their girlfriends who have called it quits.  So here’s a guys’ guide to how to dump your girlfriend.

There are several ways to dump your girlfriend.

The first method is to “drift away.”  You gradually stop calling her.  You don’t go out on dates.  You become emotionally unavailable.  At some point, she’ll get the message.  You may not even have to have a formal scene.  It will be over without any words.

There are many ways to tell her that you are dumping her.  You can take the coward’s way out and write her a letter or text message.  But, don’t expect that you will be able to dump your girlfriend so easily.  She will probably track you down and make a scene anyway. Continue reading

How to Write a Love Letter For Your Girlfriend

1280px-Remains_of_a_burnt_letter_of_loveIf you are wondering about buying the absolute most perfect gifts for your girlfriend or wife on Valentine’s Day, instead of buying something, why not try your hand at writing a love letter or love poem?

Writing love letters or love poems can be the most romantic thing to do for her, she will treasure it forever.

All you have to do is search your heart and soul and let your feelings for her flow through your fingertips onto the page. It really is not a very hard thing to do at all. Continue reading

6 Non Verbal Ways to Tell Your Girlfriend; I love You

6 ways tell girlfriend i love you

  • Have a hard time expressing your feelings?
  • Are you afraid that if you do it will make you seem like less of a man?
  • Are you afraid of coming across as vulnerable?

Saying, “your my girlfriend and I love you” will show her that you are secure in your feelings and, frankly, are more of a man because you can express your feelings.

Conveying your feelings to her is easy and you will feel better for having done it. There are many other ways of saying, “your my girlfriend” beside the words you speak. Read on to find out what they are.

Be Welcoming

Pay attention to how your react when she enters the room. Do you smile and rush to greet her with a hug and a kiss? If you do then she can see and feel that you love her. This shows her that she makes you happy when she is around.

Cook for Her

Everyone has to eat and if you put forth the effort to make her a romantic dinner once in a while she will know that you think fondly of her and want to see her happy. Include some candlelight and wine and you may just be rewarded for your efforts later. Continue reading

How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back When She Needs Space

how to get your exgirlfriend backBreak ups are, to put it mildly, a pain in the neck. The causes of splitting up vary, but whatever the cause, it is quite common for one person to want to get back together. Let’s assume that you are reading this because you’re a guy, and you have already tried to work things out. However, she brushed you off and now you’re asking yourself, “how can I get my ex-girlfriend back when she needs space?

 

First, you need to accept the fact that she needs space. Emotions can get chaotic after a break up, and you both need some space so you can get things back under control. Perhaps you have already reached that point, but your ex-girlfriend hasn’t. On the other hand, maybe you haven’t calmed down all that much and you are reacting too quickly. If this is the case, then the best thing to do is nothing. Just wait for a while and give yourself a chance to manage your feelings.

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4 Steps to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

exgirlfriend how back upset woman in bedHaving your relationship come to an end can be difficult. Even though it is something everybody has to go through, it does not seem to make it any easier. But even though your relationship is over, it does not mean you stop loving that person and are willing to let it remain broken apart.

There are a lot of ways to get your ex-girlfriend back. If you are not quite ready to lose the love of your life, there are so many methods you can try to win her back. It comes down to finding which method works best for you. While I cannot list every possible route you can take, there are four main steps you should try when trying to entice your girlfriend into returning to you.

1. Acknowledgment

The first step in your road to winning your girl back is to acknowledge that your relationship is over. Seems a bit off but it makes sense. If you live in your little world and deny reality, you cannot be objective and fix what needs fixing.

Only by accepting the truth can you then go and look at your relationship and find where it failed. Try to see things from her point of view, what made her decide to call it quits. Once you figure all this out, you can make the necessary changes in order to fix the problems she may have had. Continue reading

Why She Only Knows What She Doesn’t Want

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Why She Only Knows What She Doesn’t Want

Most Women Don’t Know What They Want; They Only Know What They Don’t Want. Let me give you an example; have you ever gone to a shopping center with a woman?

Notice the way they go about buying things. They try every-freaking-thing on.

– “oh, a free Cinnabon sample? I’m on a diet but I’ll try it” –

Have you gone to a shopping center with a man? Probably not. Why? Because men try to avoid going to a shopping center. The best invention known to all men is internet shopping. Thank you Geek God!


The Biology behind This Phenomenon

Men have been hunters for thousands of years. Back then, men will look a prey and hunt it down. They had to stare at potential dinner preys. Be quite and focus for hours. In the modern day this has translated into the dating dance of the male hunter and the female prey. A man sees something he likes, he goes and gets it or at least try. Continue reading

How Women Avoid You Breaking Up with Them, with This Trick

How Women Avoid You Breaking Up with Them

How Women Avoid You Breaking Up with Them, her trick

This is the first part of a new blog series titled; “What I have Learned From Women“. Here I will explain what I have noticed and observed about female behavior and psychology. Hopefully, I’ll stick long enough to be able to make it interesting for all of you readers of the AreYouPop.com blog.

LESSON #1 – Avoid Girlfriend Breaking Up with You with This Trick

This is something I have observed every time I had to break up with a woman for whatever reason.

Have you tried to break up with a girlfriend and noticed they always asked you; – so you are giving up on us? –

Notice she is asking in present participle tense. If you forgot what is present participle is, let me refresh your mind.

From using English.com we get;

“A Present Participle is used with the verbTo Be‘ to indicate an action that is incomplete: Continue reading