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Texting (or SMSing) a girl seems to be an easy thing to do – but being good at this game is hard … unless you know these tips and tricks! Read on to discover how to use PSYCHOLOGY tactics to text a girl and get her eating out of your hands, fast!
Principle # 1: ‘First impression’ SMS counts! OK, if you have met this girl and successfully gotten her number, then it is crucial to make the first SMS count.
You will need to come off in the SMS as full of character – you must come across as a person who is interesting to be with. The biggest cardinal sin is being boring – you must sound exciting!
In your text, relate back to what happened when you met her, and associate it with an interesting story. Just sound cheery and positive and you will do fine. If you are able to make her laugh, it’s even better!
Principle # 2: Flirt! Flirt! Flirt! The SMS is designed to do one thing well – which is to flirt ! Be suggestive in your texts and get her to guess your intentions.
Once you have got her hooked on, then you can even go hardcore on her and say you’re going to ‘dump’ her over SMS. Give her drama – she will be yearning for it.
Principle # 3: Go for the kill. Once you have developed the rapport using the two principles above, then casually ask her out.
Don’t say, “Do you want to go out? ” Instead, pre-suppose that she will go out with you – and most of the time she will automatically comply – as long as you have developed rapport with her. Say, “This Saturday we are going to watch the fishes and then to the mall.”
The above three principles should be enough for you to snag a date with her. Now if you want 100% success then you should tool up on hypnosis techniques.
How many times have you or any other guy you know not have been in this scenario: You are at a friend’s party, at a bar or at a club and meet this gorgeous girl. You talk and dance and enjoy yourselves the entire night until the early morning. Before you go your separate ways you exchange phone numbers.
The day after when you wake up, you remember this girl and you want to text her and ask her out on a date. There is only one major problem: As soon as you begin texting her, you can not think about what to write to her or how to write.
Your mind is completely blank and you don’t know what to do, so you start looking on the Internet for texting advice.
Everything you read is not what you really are looking for, it’s either too too explicit or too vague and you don’t want to send her any of those suggestions, so what will you do?
Luckily for you, there is a helping hand to grab and hold onto. You find one website that stands out from the rest. You send her one of those texts and after some texting, you agree to go out on a date the following day.
Mission accomplished! Not really because you actually need to text her again the same day that you are going on that date and text her some funny things to make her laugh. She does not respond. What can you do about it?
How to Get a Girl to Text You Back
The whole idea when you send her a text should be to get some kind of response. Girls are different from guys because they are using texting as their main source of communication with their friends and family.
They are texting all the time, so it comes naturally for them to text with you too. You are probably just a friend, at least that is where you are right now but you need to move from text buddy to boyfriend. It is not easy unless you read my text flirting tips below.
There are 3 basic rules to get a girl to text you back:
1. Ask questions. Do not be afraid of asking her questions. Before you begin asking her questions though, you should introduce yourself first. If you want to start your texting slow a nice How are you? will work just fine.
2. Entertain her. Girls get tired a lot earlier than guys, so if you want to ask her out on a date, one of the key elements that will grant you success is that you will stand out from the rest of the competition, which in this case means other Guys because if you can make her laugh, that will make her comfortable and she will be more inclined to accept your request. Crack a joke to make her laugh. If you can not think of one when you text her, find one on the Internet.
3. Make her interested in you. Tell her something that happened at the night where you met each other for the first time. If it’s a mutual experience, it’s even better!
There are things you should avoid though when you text her. Don’t be texting her and call her sweetie, honey or some other pet name too early. You will come across as needy and she will run the other way.
Using explicit language is not okay either. Some guys think it is a way of showing her that they are not interested to just be friends. This will make her run the other way too unless you have been intimate already.
Another tip: No pictures of your private parts either or you can end up on a different kind of “date”, the one that includes a lawyer and a judge.
Ambiguous language is fine after a while. I recommend that you wait for a while, at least until you have made it clear that you are not interested in her as a friend and also so you do not seem to eager or a complete jerk.
Mixing some more serious questions and adding some humor too works wonders. You should strive for being perceived as trustworthy and serious yet with a great sense of humor in order to get her out on a date.
Another thing as you might have noticed when you read through this article: I do not use any abbreviations at all and I am very keen on using proper English grammar. The same applies to texting. Do make use of your knowledge of English grammar and avoid contractions too.
Patience is key but if you don’t take action, she will get tired of you and you will become reduced to her “text buddy”. Acting to “cool” can also be devastating.
I have saved the best advice to the end and it consists of two words only: Be yourself. You have to be genuine and you have to find your texting style and do not be afraid of revealing a bit about yourself in the texting conversations.
Text Message Flirting Ideas
Being flirty is one of the keys to getting her to text you back and here I have listed 5 flirting ideas that you can use for text flirting:
1. I had a dream of you last night.
2. You are so hot, I get a tan every time I look at you.
3. I just saw the neighborhood play and thought of you.
4. I love how soft your lips are, I can not wait to kiss them again.
5. I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?
What to Text a Girl You Like
I will finish this article with three examples that you can use to text a girl you like:
1. I hope you are smiling. If not just think of me!
2. You looked so cute the last time I saw you that I forgot my pickup line.
Here we go. The definitive list of women’s top dozen dating pet peeves, in no particular order.
Sexual Innuendo. Why do so many men feel it is cute, gentlemanly, intelligent or necessary to start with the sexual conversation right off the bat? Usually before you even know his middle name he is making inquiries about what positions you like or what kind of panties you wear. Some want to brag about how they satisfy women, about their lack of need for Viagra, or their equipment size. Do we really need to know that? Do we care? No and No.
Male Chauvanist or Mysognist. Anytime a man makes a statement that begins with “you women always…” or “you women are all…” followed by something negative, a woman with high self esteem will exit the budding relationship. Women want to be with a man that truly loves women. He understands that we are different, but finds those differences fascinating, not a source of material to taunt us or to make himself feel superior.
Being A Cheapskate. I went out once with a guy that took me to an inexpensive pasta place for dinner… our bill was no more than $18. No problem, I liked the food though it was noisy with all those toddlers running around and babies screaming. But he left our very excellent waiter only a 50 cents tip! I threw down a $5 bill. Being money conscious, especially on first dates and in this economy is fine! But do not EVER be cheap.
Taking Physical Liberties. Keep your hands to yourself. Don’t “accidentally” touch a woman’s breasts, butt, or try to sneak in a kiss. Don’t ask for a kiss, and don’t grab or try to give her a hug if she has given you no such signals. Be respectful of the fact that though you might find your date very attractive, but there is no guarantee the feeling is mutual. Allow women the space to grow comfortable with you as a man before you start touching on anyone’s body.
Suffocating Clinginess. Some people (both men and women) attach themselves too quickly. Meaning, after just one date and maybe a phone call or two, they become unbelievably possessive and jealous; they consider you to be “theirs.” Should you go out with someone else, to them you are cheating and become a whole litany of unattractive adjectives. Someone that moves towards commitment and exclusivity faster than I am comfortable with is someone most people shy away from.
Cell Phone Texting or Talking. You are not a doctor and you are not on call! There is nothing that is going on in your life that should be more important than the business at hand – getting to know me! Some guys try to act like they are so alla that and must answer every single phone call (talking loudly so everyone can hear!), and respond to every single text message. Such behavior is very rude and doesn’t make a date feel very special or important. Major no-no!
Tacky, Ill Mannered, or Rude. A man that can be gracious and respectful to those he feels are “beneath” him is seen as a great human being. Men that think they are better than others due to their profession, car, education, etc. and lord it over waiters and parking attendants is someone most women dump quickly. Bad table manners, chewing with the mouth open, not using a napkin to wipe the face, talking with food in the mouth. Belching, eating fast. Gross!
Overly Romantic. This is definitely a personal thing because some women just LOVE a guy to write them or recite romantic poetry, love songs, and love letters. But what if your date really isn’t into poetry? Making such overly romantic gestures on the first or second date seems inappropriate. Though he may be sincere, most women would put him in the “I’m gaming with this romantic drivel to get some tail!” category.
Poor Grooming. Under this umbrella is funky smells, unibrows, teeth that haven’t seen a toothbrush or dental floss in days, wrinkled or holey or mismatched clothes, uncut hair on head or face, dirty nails, unpolished or dirty shoes. At least make an effort in the early phases of dating to look and smell good for your date, otherwise she may feel you aren’t worth putting time and energy into.
Argumentative and Overly Opinionated. Agree to disagree on social issues that neither one of you has the power to solve. Talking over your date, yelling, or arguing your position repeatedly when she heard you the first time is unnecessary. The goal is not to compete and for you to WIN against her in a discussion dude. Your goal is to enjoy the time together you’re sharing on your date, and get to know each other better.
Talking About Prior Relationships and/or Most Recent Ex. Bottom line, nobody cares about your ex or your relationship with her. Write it in your diary or tell yo’ momma, because really, no woman you are dating will ever care. Really.
Flakiness – Not Calling When You Say You Will, Showing up Late or Not Showing Up at All. It’s important that a man do what he says he is going to do, and when he does a woman can build confidence and faith in him. Slowly but surely, step by step the right man can draw a girl in with his steadfastness and dependability. A guy that calls and changes the date time, then calls again because he is running late, then shows up even later than that is not going to win Brownie points.
Does the idea of a first date give you sweaty palms and a racing heart?! Well, it shouldn’t. A first date is no more than an introduction. It’s a chance to meet someone new, expand your horizons, have a good time, even wear that new dress or try out that new shade of blush! Don’t over think it. You might ask yourself, “Is he cute enough?” “Does he make enough money?” “Is he solid, stable, commitment centered, generous and faithful?” Forget about all this! Go out and enjoy your time together, but remember these pointers for a successful first (and second, third, fourth and so on) date:
1. Look your best. Consider wearing a dress or a skirt, wear color and add some feminine touches to your outfit! Try wearing long dangly earrings, sexy stilettos or wedges that show off your pedicured toes, beautiful makeup that suits you and isn’t overly done, and let your hair down and make sure its brushed and shiny. You want to look on point. You want to look feminine. And you want to accentuate your best features.
2. Smell good. Wear perfume. Men notice how women smell, and you’ll make a lasting impression if you smell good! If you’re allergic to perfume, try body spray. VS makes a great line of body sprays. Even your local CVS or Walgreens carries body sprays that smell great!
3. It’s an introduction, not a therapy session. A first date is not the time to get to know a man’s entire life story, his every woe, heart break and disappointment! This is actually the quickest way to put out the sizzle. Keep it light. Don’t reveal too much on your first date. You shouldn’t be discussing your health problems, your greatest fears, your family problems and other personal matters. Go with his lead. Talk about current events, weather, travel, sports, there is a whole world out there to discuss! If your date starts to get too personal with you, remember you don’t have to answer any questions you feel are intrusive. You can ignore the question, or just tell him “That’s private!” (Followed by a smile). If your date divulges personal things about his life or goes into long winded stories about him and his ex, listen but then change the subject the first chance you get. A first date should be light.
4. Listen more. If you are the chatty type, avoid talking too much. Tone it down. A first date gives you the chance to learn a lot about your date. Most of the time, you can learn what a man wants out of a relationship with you on the very first date. His comments that tell you the most will be made in jest (meaning casually spoken). Listen! If he tells you he’s had a girl friend for nine years but has never been engaged (and he’s in his thirties), listen! If he tells you he’s had four girlfriends in the past month, listen! If he says he has no plans to marry, doesn’t want to have kids, doesn’t know how his married friends with children can stand their lives, listen! You will not be the one to change him. People tell you a lot about themselves through their stories, their appearance and how they carry themselves. Actually, language is just one way how people express themselves. If you study their body language, pick up on their energies, and notice their walk and talk, you can learn quite a lot about them.
5. Don’t try too hard. Trying too hard is the kiss of death, and a man can always tell when a woman is trying too hard. Be yourself, be confident. If a man doesn’t like you for YOU he’s not going to like the overly animated, overly flirty, overly funny, overly anything of you! Be yourself. There is someone out there for every body!
6. Keep calm. On the first date things might go wrong. The food might be over cooked, undercooked or just plain horrible! Someone might run late, you might forget and lock your keys in your car, the movie might turn out to be a total dud. The point is, just accept that not everything is going to go perfectly or how you wanted it to! Don’t be overly dramatic. If your food is horrible, if the movie wasn’t funny, if the musical show is delayed, don’t say anything. Give zero comment to the things on the date that are not to your liking, and comment on the positive only. Greatly limit your negative comments, and appreciate and comment on the things going well on the date. The weather, the ambiance, the company, etc.
7. End the date first. If it’s been six hours or more (Dinner dates can be 4-6 hours, drinks dates are between two to three hours) and your date wants to take you to a club and go dancing, decline politely. He can ask you out again if he wants to see you. Remember, men like to rush things in the beginning, especially if they like you, but they also tire easily. It’s like a kid around candy. He will eat as much as he possibly can, but guaranteed he will get sick afterwards. Leave your date wanting more. Smoothly transition into ending the date. Tell him something like, “I have a really big day tomorrow, I have to get my beauty rest!” No need to go into details. Simply express your enjoyment of the date, and nicely excuse yourself.
8. Say thank you at the end of the date. There is no need to send a text message that same night or the next day to thank your date. It’s unnecessary. Avoid unnecessary actions at all costs (because nine times out of 10 they will back fire). Say thank you and mean it sincerely at the end of the date. Fini.
9. Wait for the man to contact you. Again, no thank you texts, Facebook adds or messages, emails or phone calls. Be patient. Wait for him to be in touch with you. If he’s interested, he’ll be in touch.
10. Be responsive. If he contacts you for another date and you like him, you can accept. If it’s last minute (less than 2-3 days in advance), tell him “I’d love to go out with you, but I already have plans for [x] day.” Wait until he counteroffers with another day, and then accept! It’s best when dates are made in advance (this is gone over in my book) because a man treats you as precious when you treat your time as precious. He also doesn’t get bored easily of you. He looks forward to seeing you! If your schedule is impossible, then you must clear it up (especially Saturday nights) if you want to date a man and move forward with a relationship.
As everyone knows, when guys fall for their dream girl, almost 90 percent of the guys will be absolutely shy to express out their own feeling. Either they are afraid of rejection or too ego to move first.
Sometimes, you can feel that a guy has been treating you differently as compared to others but he never tell you that he is interested in you. Then, thousands of questions will pop up in your mind such as ‘does my guy friend like me?’ or ‘is he interested in me?’. Therefore, it is essential for a girl to notice if a guy is interested in you or not so that you can give him some positive responses as an encouragement. So, how to know if your guy friend like you?
First of all, if your guy friend falls for you, he will always want to look at your beautiful look. Your guy friend would love to stare at you especially when you are not aware of it. And whenever you notice that, he will look away. This is simply because he is shy or anxious. If this happened only once, most probably it is just coincidence. But if you catch him staring at you for more than three times, then the probability that he is interested in you is high.
After knowing that he keeps on looking at you, maybe you can offer him a chat. If he shows interest in talking with you, this shows that he could be possibly attracted to you. In addition, if he is smart, he will grab every single opportunity to get to know you more. At the same time, you can also get to know him better and decide if he is really the one for you or not.
For the first time chatting with you, be alert in the way he talks to you. Does he look nervous? Does his words cluttered up? Is he sweating? If he says out something wrong, does he apologize to you repeatedly? These are the major signs from a guy if he is interested you. Don’t worry; all you have to do is show him some good responses so that he can be more relax.
When your guy friend is interested in you, the next step is to get closer to you. The most powerful communication tools nowadays are via 3G hand-phone and via Internet. He will send lots of text messages to you to show his care and once in a while chat with you through phone calls especially at night. Besides, chatting via instant messaging through Internet also another form of communication. There are a lot of emoticons that can be used and it is easier to express your feeling especially for those who are shy to express through words.
Bring you out
If your guy friend has a crush on you, he will definitely want to bring you out especially when hanging out with his friends. He wants to let his friends know his dream girl and of course he hopes that everyone will be happy for him.
In conclusion, stop asking yourself, ‘does my guy friend like me?’ because it is actually quite easy for you to know if your guy friend is attracted to you. This is because guys will show their intentions from their actions. If you feel that he is someone right for you, give him some hints that you are interested in him as well. Then, he will be motivated to move one step forward.
Email flirting is pretty much commonplace nowadays, whether it is with a woman in the office, someone you have met online on an internet dating site, or maybe a girl you met in a bar at the weekend and exchanged business cards with. Just like flirting with women in person there are a few things to pay attention to in order to be successful with your efforts in flirting with her.
First of all, as with any situation, you want her to be comfortable with it and not feel like she is being stalked by some complete weirdo. Therefore, just because you fancy a girl you work with, don’t plague her like a virus in her inbox. As you would in person, you want to play it cool, whilst at the same time giving her subtle signals that you like her.
Don’t think that because you’re hiding behind your monitor, you can act how you like without consequences. In fact, be even more careful at work as this could be seen as sexual harassment and even end on you losing your job. It’s always best to keep work and pleasure separate, so I would advise that if you want to flirt with a woman in your office, you get her personal email and not do it on the work system.
Another factor to always remember is to treat her with respect and don’t say anything to her you wouldn’t say to her face. In fact many of the same rules apply as with face to face flirting. You want to make sure that you are confident and humorous, at the same time being complimentary to her and not coming across as insecure of needy.
Now when I say be humorous, also remember what I have said about being respectful, so generally unless you know more about each other and get each others sense of humor, don’t make jokes about her. This is a fast track to it all going horribly wrong as jokes can get lost in translation through text. Therefore, it’s also important not to use sarcasm as it’s very difficult to interpret and will more than likely be taken seriously when she reads it.
That being said, adding easy to understand jokes is a definite must as it will show your lighter side and make her laugh. This is good for you, as she will associate you with laughter and her feeling happy. If you can make her smile or laugh with each email you send, the picture of you in her head will be a very positive image and she will therefore be more likely to see you, either for a first time, or meeting up again if you’ve met before.
Finally as I touched on briefly earlier, also be sure to compliment her in the emails your share too. If she is someone you’ve not met, but you found via an internet dating site, find something in her profile to comment on and again your aim with this is to make her feel happy. If you have met her in person, you can compliment her on something that happened when you met, or maybe what she was wearing at the time and this will show you that you treasure that memory and have been thinking about her.
These are just a few simple pointers on how to go about email flirting to get the best results. For more tips on successfully flirting with women via email visit Flirting for Guys by clicking the link below now.
So, my iPhone 5 went on the fritz. I called AppleCare and got a really professional, organized, thoughtful millennial who helped me. We did a diagnostic on the phone and it was clear it was fried.
He was so helpful that towards the end I told him about what I do for living. It was clear from the way he responded that something was bothering him. Considering the stellar service he had just given me, I said he could ask me any one question and that I would try to answer it for him.
He said: “I really wonder about my overuse and my friends’ overuse of social media. I feel like we don’t communicate anymore except through Facebook, texting, Etc .. Friendships have been ruined. I find it’s hard to keep friends and if I wanted to approach someone, truthfully, I lack the confidence to do so.
I’m really not sure how we should approach one another. Especially if I want to go on a date. I’m not sure how I should ask a girl out. Text her? Facebook? (I notice he did not consider phoning her). I really believe that relationships are being ruined by social media and I’m not sure what to do about it. What should I do? ”
So many people these days are commenting on the fact that teens and millennials really are losing the ability to know how to communicate in person with each other . What is more alarming is that when you going to a restaurant people of every age are sharing a meal while spending most of the time communicating with people that are not in the room.
I paused for a moment … and then I said to this vexed young man from AppleCare:
“You represent a great quality in millennials these days. You were searching and not accepting the status quo. I think social media is a great tool. But as with everything, things must be in moderation.
Before I talk about some things you could do to deal with the communication, I would suggest we talk about how to deal with the overuse of social media . I would recommend “micro-Sabbaths,” “mini-Sabbaths” and “major-Sabbaths” as a great starting point.
In my definition of “sabbath,” I am referring to the idea of break from everything electronic. No phones, no computers, no means electronic communications or electronic games.
A “micro-Sabbath” would be A 30 minutes up to two hours a day of electronics free time.
A “mini-Sabbath” would be a two to four hour time period on a given day free of electronics.
A “major-Sabbath” would be a full day from waking up to sleep of electronic free time.
The next question is what to do with this time.
You could use it to read (I think they still make books).
You could use it to go for walks.
Paint. Play music. Sing. Dance.
Or you could practice an ancient ritual called … communication.
Communicating with family, friends, business people and loved ones.
Communication is an art. The goal is to learn about someone’s passions, someone’s pleasures and someone’s peccadilloes. In short, Great communication should be about sharing one’s heart.
How do we do that?
Ask them a question about something that is important and meaningful to yourself.
Really listen to their answer. Try to understand their response from their perspective and share how that makes you feel. ”
The gentleman from AppleCare and I were expected to converse on the simple and rudimentary level but upon seeing a fellow human being who cares and is searching I took the opportunity to communicate.
Here is my challenge to you.
Take one of these Micro sabbaths and tweet me how you used that time and I will share it with everyone I know and ask them to do the same.
In this article, I teach you how to start a sexual conversation with a girl without telegraphing sexual intents.
Your conversation with a girl you’re interested in should be geared towards sexually suggestive topics.
In other words, if you’re talking to a girl you feel attraction for and want to get into a romantic relationship with, you will want to make your conversation or interaction with her sexual in nature.
In addition to the friendly conversation you will be having with her, you have to move towards sexual suggestive topics to bring you closer to an intimate bond.
The goal here is to introduce sexual tension and generate attraction with her.
Truth is, if you keep talking to a girl you’re interested in on the level of a friend, she will categorize you as a friend in her mind.
She will see you as just a friend, but not someone she feels sexually attracted to.
Now, the drawback to this is that, women or girls know that men want to have sex with them. So any tentative suggestion or advances from you can cause a woman to raise her defenses.
So how do you go about this? How do you start a sexual conversation with a girl without raising any red flags?
Exactly as the title says, in this article I teach you how to start a sexual conversation with a girl without sounding awkward or creepy.
You’ll learn the 3 best ways to introduce the topic of sex without telegraphing any interests.
Before you begin…
Know that, women love to talk about sex…
But most of them are reluctant to talk about it with men they don’t feel comfortable with, or don’t have an emotional connection with.
So before you initiate sexual topics with a woman or a girl, make sure you’ve gained rapport with her first.
It’s even better if she’s giving you some indications of interest. For instance, when she’s playing with her hair, touching you, or leaning in close when conversing.
With that said, let’s get started… on how to start a sexual conversation with a girl.
Here’s how to start a sexual conversation with a girl:
Tip #1: Talk about things from the sexual perspective
Let’s say you’re talking about a movie.
Don’t tell her how much you liked it for its car chase and how some dude got to kick some more ass.
Instead, tell her about how you liked the love relationship between the characters.
And how you loved the sensuality of their scenes together. And then you ask her if there are any other movies that has affected her that way, and have her explain why.
Tip #2: Feed her mind
Slip in sexually charged words or phrases into your normal conversation with her.
A great way to do this is by using sexual innuendos or double entendre. This is when you say something innocent, yet can be deemed dirty or sexual.
“Boy, this is really hard.” (When you’re talking about a popsicle.)
“I didn’t come with her.” (When you’re talking about a party you went to.)
“He almost rear-ended her.” (When you’re talking someone getting hit by a car.)
Another effective way to feed her mind or gradually bring up sexual topics is to use “That’s what she said jokes” and “That’s what he said jokes”.
When she says something like:
“Put it inside“
“It’s much better when it’s wet“
“Do you want to come inside” (when she’s inviting you into her apartment)
… then you respond with:
“That’s what SHE said”
Or when she says something like…
“You’re making it hard (for me)”
“It’s getting really hard“
“I want to eat the whole thing”
… then you respond with:
“That’s what HE said”
When she says something dirty on purpose, then tease her for having a dirty mind.
Of course, you don’t want to go into this territory during the early stages or when you’ve just met.
You start with superficial conversation, then build it up to a more sexual conversation.
Again, make sure you’ve gained rapport with her first. Then you start using words that are sexually charged in your conversation.
And with time, she’ll be comfortable talking about sexual topics with you.
If she doesn’t play along, then she probably isn’t comfortable with you yet.
Next on how to start a sex conversation with a girl…
Tip #3: Bring up a sexual situation of a friend of yours
You can tell her you have a female friend who is complaining that her boyfriend doesn’t like going down south during sex. And she thinks her boyfriend doesn’t like the idea of going down on her or isn’t taking the hints she’s giving him.
Now, ask her how women can suggest things like that to their men.
“So how do women hint that sort of thing?”
(You see what you’re doing here… you’re getting her to specifically talk about sex)
Now, if she talks freely on the subject of sex, then she’s comfortable discussing sexual situations with you.
And from here on, she’ll start initiating sexual conversations with you.
So there you have it… how to start a sex conversation with a girl or a woman.
Understand this: Don’t make the girl or woman you’re talking to the subject of sexual conversation. Only talk about other people’s sexual situations.
Conclusion: How to start a sex conversation with a girl
If you can bring up sexual topics or start a sexual conversation with a girl in a way that doesn’t hint you want to sleep with her, she will be more interested and open to talking about sexual topics with you. (Again, women love to talk about sex)
And again, as mentioned earlier, make sure you’ve gained rapport with her first.
Pay attention to her when using the above 3 tactics.
If you can tell she’s comfortable with such conversation and she plays along, take it further. But if not, back off a little and continue with your normal conversation.
When all’s said and done, when a woman is open to talking about sex, it doesn’t mean she’s ready to have sex with you. It means she’s comfortable around you. And it’s a green light to move things into the romantic arena.
So again, that’s how to start a sexual conversation with a girl.
A lot of guys will focus only on one girl and at the same time drive her away, why is this? Imagine you are fishing, and only have one “rod” in the water. You will inherently pay too much attention to the line and jump all over it the second it jiggles. Now imagine you have ten rods in the water, one jiggles but you don’t give it the same level of attention because two others are showing interest at the same time. The more fish you have curious about your bait the higher the chances you are going to catch one, not only because of a numbers game but simply because you physically can’t pay too much attention to only one. This is a type of positive self-sabotage to keep your attention divided. This is one of the stranger things about relationships and is exactly why “when it rains, it pours” is a very true adage.
The Art of Push and Pull
Push and pull I have heard in the PUA world a few times but I have never heard a good explanation as to why it works and I have never heard it applied to how to text a girl. Let me explain how to move this useful tool so there is no doubt as to how to text a girl, perfectly. I liken push and pull to self-stimulation (you get what I mean, right?) as you “work” on yourself, you are creating arousal. If you only “pulled” or only “pushed” there would be no “erecting” attraction and certainly no release. In the texting world it might look like this: You: Hey cutie, did you get that job yet? (pull) Her: Don’t know yet kinda worried You: Well, if you weren’t so under qualified (push) Her: Hey! What’s that supposed to mean!? You: I was talking about us (second push) Her: Whatever, you wish you could date me! € You: Sigh, you are right, I am certainly not in your league (pull) Her: Gawd! I know you… so full of yourself You: Sure am, and that’s why you have the hots for me (push) Her: hahaha, not… You: Okay sweetie, got to run, good luck on the job and let me know if you get it (pull) Her: Thanks! Take care… We have just stimulated the situation and because there was no release we have built up the interest for the second interaction, nicely done. (Let me add something, just read another “textpert’s” advice on how to text women. To my lack of surprise, it was relatively rude and about 80% push. This is the most common PUA mistake, they rarely incorporate enough pull and put themselves at risk of being labeled a jerk, or only create attraction based on temporary negative tension)
Why you should be a pain in the A** over text
Being difficult is a killer tool for creating attraction over text because it forces the other person to play by your rules and not theirs. A lot of guys when texting a girl will take a more passive role, since they believe that if she “likes” you she will choose you. Not that simple, does anyone desire something that is not challenging? This comes down to perception of value, if there are a bunch of hurdles in your particular race it certainly makes it more fun to win. We want to make sure that she values you as much as possible and therefore wants to race. Example: Her: Hey when are you going to ask me out… You: I was going to ask you the same question Her: Girls don’t ask guys out You: Well I guess we aren’t going out, so disappointing… Her: Come on, just say it, and don’t worry, I will say yes You: No, and I know you will say yes, I can tell you got it bad for me! Her: Jeeze… Why do you have to be so difficult? You: Because you like it Her: Maybe I do okay… I am free on This text exchange might take place over an hour or a few days but the point is that you didn’t back down. Women love to push boundaries to test what kind of man you are, this is natural this is normal. Being difficult and not bowing to the will of a woman is incredibly attractive and powerful, when texting a girl.
Safety and comfort then sex
Above we talk a lot about pushing her, being difficult, ignoring her and simply raising your value by not being conventional. At the same time it is incredibly important to communicate that you are a safe guy, that you are friendly, that you are decent, and that sex is not your priority. Fortunately, text is a great place to do this, with text you can craft your response rather the knee jerk you might vomit out in person. Not creating safety and comfort is the number one reason she shuts the sex gates on your advances. If you don’t know how to text a girl properly and you send her something that is overly sexual or mildly aggressive, you will set off her flight response. Do you know why women love gay men? Because they get their male fix with zero sexual threat. I am not asking you to be effeminate around women (but it certainly doesn’t hurt) only to understand that even the smallest sexual physical threat sends women running. How does this translate to texing girls? Simple, keep sex talk to a minimum, keep anger totally wrapped up, and present them the safest guy you can. Now mix that with being push/pull, and you have a guy ALL women will be stupid attracted to. (Note, danger is a form of sexual tension, but this is a tight rope of attraction, one that can take a very long time to master)
Your goal is mastery not a bunch of rules and techniques
I teach a ton of rules and techniques for texting girls but I personally don’t need them anymore. Why? Because I understand the secret of relationship balance, something that if understood will launch you success, not only with texting girls but in all relationships. Make sure you continue below to really master texting.
Started talking to this girl, conversations were great. After a couple weeks her response time gets longer, eventually she tells me she started seeing someone else and she was sorry. I told her if things change hit me up and we can see where we are. About 6 weeks later she messaged me saying things changed, we started talking again and agreed to meet up to have a drink and watch our favorite hockey team play. Second date we went to a brewery (which she loves), great conversation and afterwards we make out by our cars (we were also both a little tipsy), third date we go walk my dog on a nature trail. We have great, long and in depth conversations about our lives, our past, and our futures.
My last real relationship ended almost 4 years ago after i was cheated on and dumped. It hurt me for so long and i was finally feeling ready to get serious again. This girl was beautiful and i really started picturing us together. The frustrating thing was that she always took so long to reply, like at least 24 hours. Not a huge deal, I’m not a fan of texting all day everyday but constantly waiting 1-2 days got tiring and made me anxious, especially when she told me about all her group chats and how active they are and how she gets mad at her sister for not replying quickly. Oh well, we’re still new to each other’s lives so no big deal. Yesterday i ask her out for a date next week and she responds saying she had fun and loved our talks but didn’t see it progressing beyond friends, due to feeling no romantic connection. Naturally I’m really hurt. But I’m quickly starting to feel better about it. I was more attracted to the idea of this girl i built up in my mind rather than the actual girl. I’ve come to realize what i deserve out of a potential partner, and it’s not waiting 1-2 days for them to even bother to speak with me. I deserve someone who’s excited to see me and takes initiative to do so. I still think my perfect girl is out there, and one day I’ll be laying in bed with her looking back on everything and saying “damn I’m sure glad it never worked with anyone else.” Sure I’m still hurting right now, but i know time heals all wounds. I’ll get better.
To anyone in my shoes, you deserve better. Don’t waste time on someone who won’t spend any time on you 🙂
My guy and I were at the climbing gym this morning and after our session we ended up on the mats where they wrestle while we cooled off and stretched. I started messing with him like I was wrestling and then I put him in a headlock and laughing telling him there’s no way you can get out of this. He says you got me. I guess I was feeling full of myself and told him to at least try. He just stands up with me on his back, pulls my arm off his neck like nothing, then reaches behind and grabs me. Before I knew what happened he has me upside down in a hug asking me “what are you going to do now, tough girl” Then he puts me down and did a flexing thing. I think he thought I was mad cause he asked if I was OK. I was fine, happy, but still processing how easy he overpowered me. I honestly felt really small in that moment (not in a bad way or anything, just a reality check of sorts on how strong guys are.)
Edit: Yes the phrasing of the question was not the best and i did not mean to upset/offend anyone, so i am apologizing for that. In the comments down below you can find an explanation from me about how that phrasing happened.
Edit 2 for the added explanation from down below:
I read the same question with “hypersensitive women” on askwomen and found it to be super interesting and really wanted a male perspective on it. i agree that it is unfortunately less common for males to share their feelings. i thought that if i phrase it with sensitive instead of hypersensitive, maybe more males would feel open to talk about it, and don’t feel off for being “unusal” even though they are not.
Also on the female thread a thing i noticed was that alot of the behaviours getting pointed out aren’t hypersensitive, they are just made felt like they are being hypersensitive to push responsibility away from their partners. That’s why i decided to say ‘sensitive’ instead of hypersensitive, not to make people feel like they are wrong for having feelings etc.
i do agree tho now that it can sound a bit mocking and it was not intended to be this way. Simply wanted shared feelings of getting upset , without silly answers such as ‘she wont suck my dick 24/7 huehuehue’
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