Most people read tons of magazines and books. Most guys read about literature, cars, newspapers, science, technology, psychology, philosophy, Greek philosophy, European philosophy, politics, who thinks this or that, and what’s happening here and there.
Information, information, information
Unfortunately, our society teaches us to consume information; useful and useless information.
We are taught to accumulate knowledge whether it is interesting to us or not. We stop listening when we fill our brains with information.
Most men accumulate great quantities of information, these are the good guys. They want to be praised and admired by how much information they know even if it is not actionable.
Where am I going with this? Having an amazing memory not necessarily means that you gonna get the girl. Remember the bad boy? How does he do it? He does know nothing, he has no conversation topics but he still gets the girl.
STOP selling your memory and start taking action.
Talk a little 20%, Listen 80%