Last night I was at a get together with my friends comparing notes about the dating scene 20 to 30 years ago versus today. The question came up about when to kiss a woman. Well, that is the wrong question. The real question is; how to know when she is she ready to be kissed. You need to know how to interpret the signals.Don’t go for the kill
“Does a cheetah ask a gazelle if it is ready to die?” This is the mentality that will get you a slap in the face. Most guys will wait until the end of the night, impatiently, to make that sudden, slippery move; the undesirable forced-smooch-with-violating-tongue kiss. There are some signals that need to be properly interpreted;
Her Signals
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She gets rid of the chewing gum
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She glances at your lips while listening to you
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She starts by looking down. Then, without words, she holds your gaze for a few seconds with a demure smile. Then, look away.
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She will hide her hands behind her back.
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She snuggles her face into your neck, barely kissing your cheek.
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She slowly move her lips towards you
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She kisses very softly
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She moves away slowly
What he thinks the signals are;
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She has been chewing gum all night long.
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He paid for dinner
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She looked at him
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She is not trying to jump out of the car. Only a little desperate to go back home
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She is not yawning
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She is not talking to some other dude about getting together later that night but send a lot of text messages
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He thinks that she thinks he is an awesome dude because she laughed at his drunk stories and hasn’t call him an idiot
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She is not drunk-ass throwing up everywhere
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She didn’t get that angry when he grabbed her butt in front of his friends