How To Meet Women During the Day

Tired of meeting girls in bars and clubs? Why take the time to go out when you can meet women while you’re going about your daily life. There are thousands of girls you can meet anywhere: Bookstores, coffee shops, malls, grocery stores, and just walking down the street. Read on to find out how to approach girls during the day and have more dates than you’ve ever imagined.

Steps

1. Pay Attention: Most people are going about their daily lives on autopilot. You have to be aware of a few things before you approach: Where is she? Is she sitting down, standing up, on the street, coffee shop, or grocery store? If she’s in a dark parking lot, it’s probably not the best time to approach her. If she’s crying on the phone with her friends, again not the best time to approach her. Assess what she is doing and base your approach on that.
2. Approach: Never walk up to someone face on, this is perceived as a threat. Always, approach her at an angle this will make her more comfortable.
3. Match her energy level but come in with slightly higher energy. If she is sitting in a park relaxing, come in with a relaxed state but add a little bit of energy to it.
4. What to say: You want to be direct and open with your intentions. You don’t want to beat around the bush, you want to get dates and make friends, not have a boring conversation with someone.
5. Sincere compliment: This is by far the most potent opener. Find something you like about her and give her a sincere compliment. It may be her eyes, or some thing like that. Ensure that the compliment you are giving does not sound creepy or desperate. The reason why this works is it is sincere, if you can’t find something to compliment her use one of the other openers.
6. Be playful: “You’re so adorable, do you mind if I flirt with you for 2 minutes”.
7. Be indirect: “Do you know what time it is, actually I don’t need the time, I just wanted an excuse to flirt with you”.
8. Get into a conversation. Get curious about who she is, ask open-ended questions and listen to her. Also, talk to her like she’s an old friend. This will make both of you feel comfortable.
9. Ask her out: You should always end any conversation that went well by setting up a date. It’s good practice, and if you like the girl, it builds your confidence. Getting dates is NOT that tough once you start actually taking the initiative. Don’t be waiting for her to send you the Seven Signs of Zelda. Presume if you got her smiling and got to know a bit about each other that you kinda like each other, and go from there.

Tips

• The most common concern guys have is “what will others think of me?” The reality is no one is likely to notice. There are thousands of guys out there approaching girls and have you ever noticed?
• Dealing with anxiety. It’s pretty stressful just walking up to a girl in a bar let alone meeting a girl on the street. One thing you can do to ease your anxiety is to just walk up to girls and ask for the time, so thank you and leave. Do this until your confidence is up to start flirting with them.
• You’re bound to want to talk to a girl who is with a friend. Never ignore the friend. One thing you can do is: After you tell the first girl your compliment, i.e., “I know this is random, but I had to tell you that you are unbelievably cute,” give her a second to reply, then turn to her friend, smile and say, “and you are crazy cute too, but, y’know, I saw her first, so…”Keep smiling. They will smile back. And they will know you are a man who knows how to make women smile.
• People are busy. So if she’s really in a rush, address it. Say
• “I know this is sudden, but we didn’t get a chance to talk as much as I wanted. Let’s get together for a drink and talk more. When are you free?” Then set the date. Even though you didn’t get much time together, there’s a good chance it still happens because you were assertive and addressed the situation.

Warnings

• If you find you’re not getting results, don’t get down on yourself. most of the time the mistakes you make come back to some simple things:
• Do you get in her face, or do you give her space? Do you look relaxed and easy, or is your jaw tense and your breath shallow.
• Are you talking to her like an old friend, or casual acquaintance, or are you holding your tension and making her feel tense with your tension?
• Are you talking to her because you feel you have to, or because she is a gift to you and you sense that she may be worth getting to know?
• What is she doing? Is she in a wicked hurry? Is she pre-occupied? Did you do something to get her attention first in a totally comfortable way, or did you ambush her with your “pickup?”
• The only way you can meet a woman who is worth meeting is to be totally relaxed and make your conversation seem like the most natural thing in the world.