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Doc Love reveals why begging lowers her Interest Level—and how to become a Challenge she can’t resist!

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Dear Doc Love,

I am a 23-year-old male with good looks and substantial finances and who has dated many women.

I have finally met a woman who has totally knocked me off my feet. She is my brother’s wife’s little sister, and she lives eight hours away. We have been seeing each other every few months or so for a year and a half and I have fallen hard.

I am a very caring guy who has totally spoiled her, yet she is unwilling to commit. She says she loves me and that she isn’t looking for someone else, yet she refuses to settle down. I told her that the only difference in our relationship would be that she would not be able to casually date. She said she couldn’t handle this even though she dated a complete loser that abused her verbally (and I think, physically) for two years.

We do not speak about it anymore because it is a very unpleasant subject, and because we cannot agree on anything close to a solution. Is this a case of “nice guy finishing last” or as my friends and I say, “Pretty girl loves a loser”? How can your “System” help me?

Sincerely,

John – who thinks he was jilted

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Johnny, Johnny, oh Johnny… How can someone so rich, good-looking and with so much experience with women be so off base? I can see you really need my help.

You say she lives eight hours away? How do you hope to monitor her Interest Level and attitude this way? You can’t observe her body language and mannerisms over a long period of time. Plus, over the phone and during the occasional visit, she can always put on her best act. Another thing: how often does she fly to your house? If she isn’t travelling to your house 50% of the time, you’re doing too much, too soon for her; she’ll only end up taking you for granted, not respecting you, and eventually losing romantic interest in you. Physical distance, Johnny, is one of your biggest problems, but your “spoiling her” is even worse.

The most revealing bit of information, Johnny, is the conversation you had with her about “settling down.” First of all, she should have been the one bringing up the subject, not you. Second, when you have to argue with a woman to settle down, in her ears, she hears a type of begging, which only lowers her Interest Level (The only exception is if you are a guy with a yacht!). I don’t mean to crush you, but women with high Interest Level don’t want to go out with lots of other guys. The fact that you have to convince this girl to settle down already shows that she has low Interest Level.

Moreover, Johnny, by mentioning how rich you are and that you spoil her, my guess is that you’ve probably tried to win her over with endless gifts (another form of begging). But you cannot buy Interest Level. Women love gifts and there is a time to give them, but if you constantly give her goodies while she gives nothing in return, she will end up thinking that you’re a wimp trying to bribe her. My guess is that your girl contributes very little to the relationship.

Now, judging by how long she stayed with her macho ex-boyfriend, the girl you’re chasing loves the outlaw type, not Wimpus Americanis. Why? Because, though he is abusive, the outlaw, unlike you, presents a Challenge to her – albeit, a negative one (and to me this guy is a piece of crap for abusing women). She loves Harley guys and you are a tricycle guy. She loves walking on the wild side, and you have no idea where to find it. Your competition, Mr. Outlaw, plays with her mind by being a Challenge while you beg on your knees for her to take another trinket from Gucci.

What you don’t get, Johnny, is that your girl should be wondering where she stands with you, but you never give her this opportunity because you keep acting like a butler, catering to her every whim. I’ll bet she wonders where she stands with Mr. Outlaw. And she can say whatever she wants but the BOTTOM LINE FACTOR says she stayed with him for two years! Do you see how she prefers a negative Challenge to you? Now, what if you were a positive Challenge?

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So, what should you do now? First, save yourself some trouble, and find someone closer to home, but if you absolutely must give this girl a shot, ask that she do 50% of the travelling (this will reveal her Interest Level really fast!). Also, cut out the gifts, and let her be the one to raise the issue of settling down again. In the meantime, don’t stop dating other people. She isn’t! Also, you have to consider that maybe she has too many scars and baggage – ask yourself why she stayed for 2 years with a guy that was such a negative challenge to begin with.

In your next relationship, look for a woman who likes you – first. Allow her to express her love for you by giving to you – first. Then, reciprocate in response. Like most guys, you rush the romantic process. Men have to learn to slow down. If you learn to do this, Johnny, then the women will start to come to you.

Guys, besides looking at the woman’s attitude, you’ve got to look at her track record in the race of love. Like a bookie who knows the history of a thoroughbred at Del Mar and says, “She only wins on a dry track,” you need to look at Miss Right’s track record and find out whether you are her type of guy or not. Otherwise she will look at you like Man O’ War facing a muddy track: no Interest Level.

From now on, Johnny: forget your Interest Level, pick your women carefully, and learn to back off and be a challenge.

Remember guys, the number one fact of life is “She has to like you first,” so save your love only for those who appreciate you.